Hi Priyanka,
I see there are two potential solutions.
1) Create two separate associations from your main entity to the employee (*-1), one for recommender1 and one for recommender2.
2) Use an information entity to allow you to 'store additional information about the associated objects). See https://academy.mendix.com/link/modules/93/lectures/2794/-5.3-Information-Entities for more information.
Hope this helps.
A reference selector works in combination with a 1-* association. So One employee can be referenced by many form entity objects and one form entity object can reference ONE employee. Have 2 times a reference selector widget using the same association doesn't change the multiplicity of the used association.
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