The problem is that a single item cannot be refreshed in a list view by default. Have you tried to delete the item and do a refresh on it using the feedback helper method described here.
Have you tried using a nanoflow for this? No idea if it will do the trick, but it might.
In my opinion, this issue should probably be addressed in the ListViewControls Pagination widget. I recommend you file an issue on GitHub: https://github.com/mendixlabs/list-view-controls/issues